9 Main Qualities You’ll Find in an Attractive Introvert!

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It’s funny how even introverts themselves underestimate their power of attraction, most of the time we’re too self-aware that we can’t see the forest for the trees.

So I can’t really blame people who are not introverted when they find it a mystery to be attracted to introverts.

If you can’t wrap your head around the fact that you find introverts attractive, I (The introvert) will help you figure it out.

In this article, I listed  9 main qualities that make introverts most attractive in the eyes of others.

Here’s Why Introverts Are So Attractive…

  1. Mysteriousness

People are attracted to mystery, it holds their interest.

Introverts sometimes come off as mysterious because they’re not very communicative outside of their closest circle of friends.

It’s not that they don’t want to be social, but they just prefer spending time alone most of the time, because being social all the time drains their energy.

The fact that introverts barely open themselves up to people might make them seem even more mysterious.

When they do open themselves up, it seems to everyone around them as a big deal because usually, it’s not easy for an introvert to open up to someone.

  1. Seeming unapproachable.

Introverts prefer to keep a comfortable distance from the rest of the world, for different reasons, but it’s a fact that they communicate with people on their own terms.

People sometimes find introverts attractive because they pique their interest, you’ll naturally be aware of someone who seems inaccessible.

You’ll follow their moves and try to gauge their actions and traits from afar because you think they’re unapproachable and you’ll find yourself thinking about them more than you probably should.

  1. Trustworthiness

As I already said, most introverts don’t like to open themselves up too much and they’re interoceptive. This makes us more aware of the seriousness of a situation, like when being asked to do a favor or to keep a secret.

Some people are attracted to that because it gives off the vibe of reliability.

Introverts are also usually less talkative, which makes them more reliable when you want someone to keep a secret, and they’ll do it without making a big deal about it.

  1. Calmness

Most introverts enjoy and actually need to spend time alone and they take the time to be with themselves, this gives them a certain calmness you’ll rarely find in extroverts.

When you’re with an introvert, they’ll imitate this aura of calmness and it will be a refreshing feeling to those around them.

They’re certainly not brash or pushy, which is quite the opposite of extroverts who are always on the go.

  1. Independence

Introverts are self-sufficient and prefer to rely on themselves instead of asking for assistance. This trait is pretty common among introverts because we’re more comfortable doing things by ourselves than in a group.

Now, when you’re with an introvert, you’ll notice how calm they are and their independence will make you feel free to be yourself around them without feeling like you’re imposing on their space or you’re expected to do something.

Thinking of someone as independent and self-sufficient will make them seem attractive to you.

  1. Loyalty

Introverts are usually very loyal to the people they care about and they’ll do anything for the people they love.

They’re also less likely to cheat on their partner or to betray someone’s trust, and that’s because we tend to form deep connections with the people we’re seeing, so we don’t find it hard to place our partners on a whole other level than everyone else.

Loyalty in a person is a very attractive trait to have so it’s only natural to find a loyal introvert attractive.

  1. Humility

Introverts don’t like to draw attention to themselves and they’re not comfortable in the spotlight. This might make them seem unassuming or even shy.

But this humble attitude is actually a quality that a lot of people find attractive in others.

People love those who are down-to-earth and humble and this is yet another trait of introverts that makes them attractive.

  1. Shyness

Introverts can be shy and having a naturally shy person being so caring and loyal will make them seem really attractive.

I don’t know about you but I find it super attractive and cute at the same time when a guy I’m interested in gets shy around me.

So I can only imagine extroverts finding an introvert being naturally shy around them attractive.

I wouldn’t say that shyness is a good trait to have, but it wouldn’t harm to be with someone who’s shy, right?

  1. Attentiveness

Big bonus for introverts.

Introverts love to listen and to speak only when they have something interesting and important to say.

An introvert will sit there and listen to you without trying to interrupt you or finish your sentences, they won’t even find joy in interrupting you because they can listen to you for hours without getting bored.

I actually find contentment in listening to people and have been told many times that I’m a good listener. I take this as a compliment every time.

It’s only fair to think of someone as attractive if they’re are attentive and considerate when you talk to them.

This is why it’s more likely for you to find an introvert attractive.


Did you find this article useful?

I’m not going to lie, introverts aren’t always that attractive, some of us can be a pain in the ass to deal with, especially when overwhelmed and burned out.

But when an introvert is in a relationship with someone who understands them and is willing to give them the space they require, the relationship will be a lot more rewarding for both parties.

I hope you enjoyed this read, if you did, feel free to check my other article on introverts to get to know us better!

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Sarra is a behavioral science student and HS science teacher ( also a cat mom! ) who obsesses over typing people but can't seem to type her own self. Let's just say that for the time being, she's a cross between an INFJ and INFP!

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